"Some PhD toten/Poetry writing/Portrait painting/"I'll see you in court"/World traveling/
Stand back, I'm creating/Type of queens/I was raised by women.”
- From the Poem Raised by Women by Kelly Norman Ellis
Torie DiMartile is a spoken word poet and a graduate student at Indiana University.
She has performed at the Bloomington Poetry Slam, runs an Instagram page where she educates others about race, identity and adoption and is a hoarder of poetry anthologies, old postcards and corny jokes.
Growing up as one of two adopted brown children and living in an Italian-American home in a small white Kentucky town, she formed a deep love for food, the outdoors and the liminal. Living life in between Black and White, her work honors the middle ground and the loneliness and resilience that can be found there.
Welcome to the Poets Weave. I'm Romayne Rubinas Dorsey. Torie, what poems have you brought for us today?
if i have a daughter, what I will tell her of men
when baby girl comes
(just like her mama)
slinging salt,
rip-tide of a mouth,
nimble and slender bones,
all mermaid at the hips.
i will tell her supernatural
is her middle name.
she bows to moonlight
and nothing else.
when she comes,
i will warn her that men are divers,
going deep enough to crown your beauty
treasure
but not deep enough
to be scared of dying
your sacred will call to them
they will loot your floors of pearls
sell your precious
as if they were never awed to boyhood
by your
body
your body, that taught the ocean
to be Wild
i will teach her floating is self-defense
shallow ribs, head skyward
sun pulling the string of your chest
to its heat
when men roar in on waves
there is nothing weak about
levitation
there is nothing wrong with
the numbing slow of out and in
to remind you
your siren song
was never meant for them.
no, that heart chorus
is your resurrection hymn.
a hallelujah after hibernation.
your baptism into self-love.
and you open those lungs up
visceral and longing and ricocheting
off the mirrors of the earth
for no one but
you
Walking Heart
You are thirteen, my shadow.
You are thirteen,
not yet awaked to
a body in full bloom
its intrusive surprises
and unassuming curves.
You are thirteen,
perched at the stone wall,
dumping back
the orange wrap Auntie
gave you for Christmas
barrettes, golden cuffs, beads
and the silk scarf
I kept in the wood box on
Poppy’s shoe shelf
until your tenth birthday.
You are thirteen and straight hair
is your ritual, clouded bathroom mirrors
smoke lingering in the hallway
making you look older,
a mystic twenties dancer,
swaying her lean hips
to Maroon 5 and the sizzle, pop, hiss
or the iron.
You are thirteen,
and have already learned the art
of losing yourself –
and I have taught you.
Who Says
Mama said I drove around the block looking for Black people.
Mama said, child, your hair ain’t never gonna swoosh.
Mama said you have to work twice as hard to get half as much.
Mama said you better marry a brother.
Mama said what matters is you’re here, you’re whole, not made of parts.
Mama said I bet you the police was white.
Mama said you need to learn to cook, to cook for yourself.
Mama said not everybody in this world is gonna treat you the way you should be treated.
You've been listening to poems by Torie DiMartile on the Poets Weave. I'm Romayne Rubinas Dorsey.