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How Online Dating Is Shifting Society And Changing Ideals

Annie and Kevin Cool have been married for about two and a half years, but began their relationship five years ago. They met on Match.com, an online dating site that launched 20 years ago and has exploded in recent years.

Kevin says when the couple first began dating, Annie was extremely embarrassed. She's unsure whether her dad even knows they met online.

Kevin and Annie are far from alone. Match currently registers nearly three million users in North America, with around 25,000 signing up each day. According to Pew Research, one in five adults between 25 and 34 years old has tried online dating.

Justin Garcia is a scientific advisor for Match.com and says today, the internet as a whole is the most common way for Americans to find a romantic partner.

Now we can go to the internet and reach out across our community, town, state, country, across the world.

"For millions of years people turned to their surroundings, to their friends and their family," Garcia says. "Who was in their social networks, who was in their tribe? Now we can go to the internet and reach out across our community, town, state, country, across the world to find people with similar interests."

Because online dating has become so popular, that negative stigma Annie was embarrassed about years ago is pretty much gone.

"The idea that we turn to technology and the internet to find relationships whether it be sexual or romantic, this has become a normalized part of how people find each other today," Garcia says.

On sites like Match.com, there's a list of basic questions that includes things such as your age, your hair color, and how tall you are. In the essay portion you list what you do for a living, your religion, what you last read, your favorite things, and much more. Then, you're prompted to upload a picture.

Although online dating allows people to screen potential partners based on a number of specific qualities, research actually shows that people are dating in a more diverse way than ever before.

"The proof is in the pudding. And we could say what are the relationships like today, what do they look like? And if we do that we find there's a rising number of people who are in bi-racial or multiracial relationships, who are dating across religious groups, who are marrying across economic groups."

But what does that mean for our society's future when around 23 percent of serious relationships and marriages result from online dating? Garcia says the answer can't be determined just yet.

"Whether turning to the internet and web is changing our relationships, it has to be, we know it is. Is it for better or worse? I think it's both. There's a lot of great things that come from it. There's a lot of new complicated things to figure out, but that's dating, that's relationships, something that has been a part of the human legacy for millions of years."

Garcia adds that the dating sites simply break down barriers for meeting people. It's important to take the time to really get to know someone. For Annie and Kevin, Match.com helped them do just that.

There are real relationships that are results and there's nearly a million babies that have resulted. I think that's a marvelous valentines story.

"What it really did was break the ice where you could have a conversation beyond what's on the profile and say this might be someone I'd like to talk to further," Kevin says.

Annie says that after the first date she could definitely feel a connection with Kevin and the connection turned out to be a lifelong one.

Although people today are dating more diversely than ever before, Garcia noted one exception. Research shows that the very wealthy, meaning millionaires, are not entering into relationships across socioeconomic groups. The very wealthy are continuing to pair off with the very wealthy.

Match estimates that one million babies have been born in the United States as a result of relationships that have started on Match.com.

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